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		<title>Comment on When Your Mom has Borderline Personality Disorder by abiasedopinion</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2008/10/24/when-your-mom-has-borderline-personality-disorder/#comment-271</link>
		<dc:creator>abiasedopinion</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Dec 2009 06:42:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it&#039;s also important to note that children who are victimized by borderline personality parents are also highly likely to develop post traumatic stress disorder. PTSD is in no way exclusive to the spouse. In many ways, the spouse is to blame for allowing the victimization of the children. For heaven&#039;s sake, shouldn&#039;t the adult parent who is not BPD have some realization that the children are being damaged? I think the worse bit is when the parents do divorce. (I mean, seriously, this is likely because, if nothing else, the BPD spouse will leave solely for the drama of the divorce experience.) When this happens, the BPD parent now transfers the &quot;scape goat&quot; role to one of the children. This is probably one of the most debilitating developmental experiences - how can a child under the age of 10 (7, 5, 2...) even begin to process what is going on. Of course, the child will believe the BPD parent. Hey, if Mom says you&#039;re the anti-christ incarnate and you&#039;re 5 years old, well, certainly, it *must* be true because, hey, Mom would *never* lie and the only people you can &#039;really&#039; trust are family... right?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it&#8217;s also important to note that children who are victimized by borderline personality parents are also highly likely to develop post traumatic stress disorder. PTSD is in no way exclusive to the spouse. In many ways, the spouse is to blame for allowing the victimization of the children. For heaven&#8217;s sake, shouldn&#8217;t the adult parent who is not BPD have some realization that the children are being damaged? I think the worse bit is when the parents do divorce. (I mean, seriously, this is likely because, if nothing else, the BPD spouse will leave solely for the drama of the divorce experience.) When this happens, the BPD parent now transfers the &#8220;scape goat&#8221; role to one of the children. This is probably one of the most debilitating developmental experiences &#8211; how can a child under the age of 10 (7, 5, 2&#8230;) even begin to process what is going on. Of course, the child will believe the BPD parent. Hey, if Mom says you&#8217;re the anti-christ incarnate and you&#8217;re 5 years old, well, certainly, it *must* be true because, hey, Mom would *never* lie and the only people you can &#8216;really&#8217; trust are family&#8230; right?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Moms with Borderline Personality Disorder by Anna</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/10/05/moms-with-borderline-personality-disorder/#comment-268</link>
		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 19:40:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for your excellent  website.  It is very validating to the victims of borderlines.

I am the child of a borderline mother.  It took years of therapy to understand the soul rape that was inflicted on me by my mother due to her mental illness. 

Even some psychiatric professionals caused harm because they focused mainly on my BPD mother and what the family could do to help HER.  They completely ignored the trauma suffered by my mother&#039;s victims. 

Borderlines can be particularly harmful to chlldren.  My own mother was often depressed and in her depression often expressed the desire to kill herself to end her suffering and to kill her  children, too...  to prevent their suffering.   This was overwhelmingly frightening and always left me feeling off balance when alone with my mother. 

BPD is a very serious  psychological issue and the young victims of borderline mothers need to be identified and rescued from the BPDs emotional and sometimes physical abuse. 

Thank you for enlightening people about this condition.   

When I finally learned about BPD, it helped me to understand my mother better and to set strong boundaries. 

It gave me strength to have sympathy for her, while at the same time it gave me permission to individuate and to protect myself from her negative, manipulative, controlling, self-destructive behaviors.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your excellent  website.  It is very validating to the victims of borderlines.</p>
<p>I am the child of a borderline mother.  It took years of therapy to understand the soul rape that was inflicted on me by my mother due to her mental illness. </p>
<p>Even some psychiatric professionals caused harm because they focused mainly on my BPD mother and what the family could do to help HER.  They completely ignored the trauma suffered by my mother&#8217;s victims. </p>
<p>Borderlines can be particularly harmful to chlldren.  My own mother was often depressed and in her depression often expressed the desire to kill herself to end her suffering and to kill her  children, too&#8230;  to prevent their suffering.   This was overwhelmingly frightening and always left me feeling off balance when alone with my mother. </p>
<p>BPD is a very serious  psychological issue and the young victims of borderline mothers need to be identified and rescued from the BPDs emotional and sometimes physical abuse. </p>
<p>Thank you for enlightening people about this condition.   </p>
<p>When I finally learned about BPD, it helped me to understand my mother better and to set strong boundaries. </p>
<p>It gave me strength to have sympathy for her, while at the same time it gave me permission to individuate and to protect myself from her negative, manipulative, controlling, self-destructive behaviors.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Keynesian Economics and Obamanomics by BeyondTheMargin.net</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/09/14/keynesian-economics-and-obamanomics/#comment-240</link>
		<dc:creator>BeyondTheMargin.net</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Sep 2009 18:01:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I firmly believe that the monetary and fiscal policies that the world is embarking on have created liquidity induced securities speculation (all over again) and have engendered inefficient resource allocation.  You can&#039;t erase trillions in bad loans and poor capital investment decisions just by throwing around some &quot;stimulus&quot; funds and lowering interest rates to 0%.

&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.beyondthemargin.net/2009/09/keynesian-economics.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;READ - The Resurgence of Keynesian Economics and Interventionism&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I firmly believe that the monetary and fiscal policies that the world is embarking on have created liquidity induced securities speculation (all over again) and have engendered inefficient resource allocation.  You can&#8217;t erase trillions in bad loans and poor capital investment decisions just by throwing around some &#8220;stimulus&#8221; funds and lowering interest rates to 0%.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.beyondthemargin.net/2009/09/keynesian-economics.html" rel="nofollow">READ &#8211; The Resurgence of Keynesian Economics and Interventionism</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Motive Behind Annie Le Murder at Yale University by mrstreasures</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/09/17/motive-behind-annie-le-murder-at-yale-university/#comment-236</link>
		<dc:creator>mrstreasures</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 15:05:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very sad story indeed. It makes us think, if there was a way this could have been prevented.  If it was a mental health issue, it signals us to look into &quot;rages&quot; and &quot;temper tantrums&quot; and the link to what will really make a person &quot;lose it&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very sad story indeed. It makes us think, if there was a way this could have been prevented.  If it was a mental health issue, it signals us to look into &#8220;rages&#8221; and &#8220;temper tantrums&#8221; and the link to what will really make a person &#8220;lose it&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Motive Behind Annie Le Murder at Yale University by pak31</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/09/17/motive-behind-annie-le-murder-at-yale-university/#comment-235</link>
		<dc:creator>pak31</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 14:39:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, that was very interesting. I think it sounds like him very much. Mostly because he wasn&#039;t a &quot;dark&quot; person. He had anger control issues in the past but for the most part, and from viewing the pictures of him with his girlfriend, with his dogs, etc. he looked like a regular guy. Smiling, happy, affectionate. He wasn&#039;t unkempt, dressed normal, liked to have fun. Plus, one thing that makes sense is the the one thing the article said about being remorseful afterward. This is only my opinion but he does look like he is sad and a bit scared, he doesn&#039;t look like the criminal that has that &quot;poor me&quot; look on their face. I could be so wrong with my opinion but who knows what happens to the mind when they snap, it may be a surreal experience during the crime, then afterwords, they are back to themselves. Regardless, murder is murder, he must pay the price. He also committed this crime in a place where he HAD to know, or a normal person would know, that he couldn&#039;t get away with it. He knew his pass key was monitored, he knew there were cameras outside the building. As a &quot;sane&quot; person I wonder how a guy like this not only thinks that murder is even an option, what does it accomplish? But also, he knew this girl had no chance, he was huge compared to her, why did he have to go as far as murdering her? I guess I&#039;ll never understand the mind of a killer. Such a sad, sad story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, that was very interesting. I think it sounds like him very much. Mostly because he wasn&#8217;t a &#8220;dark&#8221; person. He had anger control issues in the past but for the most part, and from viewing the pictures of him with his girlfriend, with his dogs, etc. he looked like a regular guy. Smiling, happy, affectionate. He wasn&#8217;t unkempt, dressed normal, liked to have fun. Plus, one thing that makes sense is the the one thing the article said about being remorseful afterward. This is only my opinion but he does look like he is sad and a bit scared, he doesn&#8217;t look like the criminal that has that &#8220;poor me&#8221; look on their face. I could be so wrong with my opinion but who knows what happens to the mind when they snap, it may be a surreal experience during the crime, then afterwords, they are back to themselves. Regardless, murder is murder, he must pay the price. He also committed this crime in a place where he HAD to know, or a normal person would know, that he couldn&#8217;t get away with it. He knew his pass key was monitored, he knew there were cameras outside the building. As a &#8220;sane&#8221; person I wonder how a guy like this not only thinks that murder is even an option, what does it accomplish? But also, he knew this girl had no chance, he was huge compared to her, why did he have to go as far as murdering her? I guess I&#8217;ll never understand the mind of a killer. Such a sad, sad story.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Goodbye Gallbladder &#8211; A Tribute to My Surgery by Shaun</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/09/15/goodbye-gallbladder-a-tribute-to-my-surgery/#comment-234</link>
		<dc:creator>Shaun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 02:12:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Good job - academy award for you !</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good job &#8211; academy award for you !</p>
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		<title>Comment on Public School Versus Homeschooling:  Which is Better? by Sheryl Cattell</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/09/03/public-school-versus-homeschooling-which-is-better/#comment-231</link>
		<dc:creator>Sheryl Cattell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Sep 2009 21:53:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A recent U.S. Department of Education research report, Evaluation of Evidence-Based Practices in Online Learning, found that, “On average, students in online learning conditions performed better than those receiving face-to-face instruction.” The primary reasons for this improvement are the ability for the student to go at their own pace and the active engagement required with online study programs – students learn by doing instead of by listening.  You can read the article here: http://www.ed.gov/rschstat/eval/tech/evidence-based-practices/finalreport.pdf</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A recent U.S. Department of Education research report, Evaluation of Evidence-Based Practices in Online Learning, found that, “On average, students in online learning conditions performed better than those receiving face-to-face instruction.” The primary reasons for this improvement are the ability for the student to go at their own pace and the active engagement required with online study programs – students learn by doing instead of by listening.  You can read the article here: <a href="http://www.ed.gov/rschstat/eval/tech/evidence-based-practices/finalreport.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.ed.gov/rschstat/eval/tech/evidence-based-practices/finalreport.pdf</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Catholic Robinson Curriculum Daily Schedule by mrstreasures</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/08/30/catholic-robinson-curriculum-daily-schedule/#comment-230</link>
		<dc:creator>mrstreasures</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 12:31:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you.  Homeschooling is a leap of faith.  Overwhelming at first but very exciting.  I wished I was more courageous to do it much earlier.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you.  Homeschooling is a leap of faith.  Overwhelming at first but very exciting.  I wished I was more courageous to do it much earlier.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Catholic Robinson Curriculum Daily Schedule by sfrack</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/08/30/catholic-robinson-curriculum-daily-schedule/#comment-228</link>
		<dc:creator>sfrack</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2009 21:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Best of luck to you.  I give so much credit to those who home school.  What a challenging job!  And with 8 kids!  How do you look sooooo young and have 8 kids?  It must be that because of your strong faith God has rewarded you!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Best of luck to you.  I give so much credit to those who home school.  What a challenging job!  And with 8 kids!  How do you look sooooo young and have 8 kids?  It must be that because of your strong faith God has rewarded you!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Sorrow of a Mother Turns to Peace with God&#8217;s Grace by Tamie</title>
		<link>http://mrstreasures.wordpress.com/2009/08/16/the-sorrow-of-a-mother-turns-to-peace-with-gods-grace/#comment-223</link>
		<dc:creator>Tamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2009 04:51:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for posting Mary Ellen&#039;s e-mail.  I have a 5-year-old son with autism, and have found her blog to be a source of inspiration in the past.  I am heartbroken for their family and have been praying for them and for Ryan since I heard about this tonight.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for posting Mary Ellen&#8217;s e-mail.  I have a 5-year-old son with autism, and have found her blog to be a source of inspiration in the past.  I am heartbroken for their family and have been praying for them and for Ryan since I heard about this tonight.</p>
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