PMS’ing

PMS’ing is considered a “disorder”.  I was surprised to know that many women are experiencing aggravating symptoms of PMS.  It is the kind that makes a woman turn to an “emotional monster”.  Studies point to some genetic link though like any other disorders, nothing is conclusive.
Check out my article on “Premenstrual Dysphoria:  How to Survive [...]

Depression Causes Man to Kill Family after $460 K Debt

 
 
 
 
CNN.com reported in its news ” Dad who killed family, self was $460 K in debt, sheriff says” was suffering from Depression.  It was also revealed that he had severe financial difficulties.  The debts were due to unsold houses in Florida and other credit card debts.  
The stress of finances is not taken by everyone [...]

The Jigsaw Puzzle

All our children have suffered trauma and neglect from their  birth mother who had Borderline Personality Disorder.  At present, their mother is in denial that she has wronged her children.  She denies their truth.  The results are hurting children.  Healing is very slow.  
American couples adopt children from foreign countries like Romania, Russia, and China. [...]

Proven Ways to Handle A Difficult Child

 
 
 
My article “10 Tips For How To Handle  A Difficult Child”  is published today at Associated Content.  
Normal parenting does not work with difficult children. Before you call it quits with your difficult child, there are proven ways to turn the monster child to an angelic child.
Read more here.

Are Angelina Jolie’s Adoptive Kids At Risk for Suffering from Reactive Attachment Disorder?

 
 
 
My new article has finally been published.  It is entitled “Are Angelina Jolie’s Adoptive Kids At Risk for Suffering from Reactive Attachment Disorder?  There has been no articles written yet on this subject. There are numerous  write ups on Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) but not on the possibility that Angelina Jolie’s kids have RAD. But, [...]

Do you have a Super Mom Syndrome?

 
 
 
I am generally an optimistic person.  I try to see the blessings in a situation instead of sulking forever on a misfortune.  But, there is one thing that I am very sensitive about and these are my 9 children.  I worry that the demands of our large family is inhibiting me from taking care of [...]

Six Secrets on How to Deal With Your Difficult Wife

 
 
 
The article “Six Secrets on How to Deal With Your Difficult Wife” has a surprising twist in the end.  It is not what you think it is but it will lead you to a conclusion that may solve your problems with your difficult spouse. Really, the question is “Who is really being difficult?”
A large percentage [...]

Can Your Loved One Recover from Borderline Personality Disorder?

 
 
 
Based on our family’s experience with Borderline Personality Disorder, it is hard for us to say that a BPD can recover from this disorder.  It is because Borderlines have their own reality.  In their world, you are the one at fault for not loving her enough, understanding, taking care of her.  In her eyes, you [...]

Is it worth to stay if your spouse has Borderline Personality Disorder?

 
 
 
The article “Development Trauma Disorder:  The Next Mental Health Issue” explains disorders resulting from trauma.  Trauma is relative and subjective.  One situation can be traumatic for one person.  Another trauma can be handled by another.   However, there are situations where the risk of trauma is so high that the likelihood that you will come [...]

When Your Mom has Borderline Personality Disorder

 
 
 
Veronica, a reader of my article “Mother’s Day and Borderline Personality Disorder: When your Mom is an Emotional Terrorist” articulated in her own words the pain of those children with BPD mother.  
“Thank-you for telling the real truth about how difficult it is and how utterly emotionally draining it is to have a mother with [...]