Very New Tips to Deal with Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder

You are caught in a snare.  It almost feels like a web.  You are stuck.  You do not have confidence to make any movements at all.  It seems that you are called to reflect on the emotions you are feeling right now – confusion, hurt, anger, betrayal.  No action means you will be forever entangled [...]

The Accusing Mother

What triggers us to find fault in our  child? It can be our frustrations. It can be our feelings of rejection. It can be our anger. It can be our resentment. It can be our fears. It can be a host of many emotions intermingled with another. When we find fault with our  child, we [...]

Does your child recognize the truth?

The scariest for me in dealing with attachment disorders is the inability of the  child to recognize the “truth” in a worldly sense and Truth in the spiritual sense. A  child with disorders, because of the deep wounds, exists in a foggy, blurry world.  They see half-truths.  It is almost like they are blind to [...]

Obssessive Thoughts – how to rebuke the lies

This is a letter from a young adult.  He is currently in the prayers of many because he has answered God’s call.  He wanted to be free from his past sins but our spiritual foe wouldn’t let him.  Thus, the enemy torments him. His email: I was very exhausted. I cannot sleep because of the [...]

When Your Children Cause You Distress and Disturbance

It is not out of the ordinary to hear a parent complain about the distress that children place on them.  It could be from the mundane to the difficult disorders. One day, I wrote this letter to an online friend who was seeking an advice on what to do with his 13 year old son.  [...]

hi, I’ve been reading the posts and am very interested. I have two sons with RAD (one is in residential treatment and the other is pretty mild) I wondered if you guys have heard of the rad consultancy? We were trying it and I”m a little skeptical. I do believe God can heal our children [...]

Love Can Help Heal Disorders Related to Attachments

“Your actions towards your RAD children may seem very small and ordinary, but if you do it with love, it gets pleasing and powerful”.  In my heart, I heard God say this to me tonight when I visited the Adoration Chapel.  I asked him to talk to me. This afternoon, I had a very long [...]

How many times do we forgive our RAD or BPD child?

How many times do we need to forgive our children with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) or Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? Day in and day out?? Its like a cheating husband or wife, u never can fully get the trust back. My daughter lies and steals everyday all day long. When is enough enough? When this [...]

Are you at your wit’s end with your difficult child?

I’m a certified mother of a difficult child and the ten steps on how to deal with this kind of child are just timely and very helpful to me. Thanks for sharing your article.May the good Lord bless you. Sarah (June 24, 2010) This is the article she is talking about: Ten Tips for How [...]

Emotional Illnesses and the Catholic prescriptions

At least send up a prayer for me. I am in so much emotional pain, and I am so alone. I had a rough childhood, and since marrying at 19, life has just been tough for us. I think because both of us were so wounded as children. I came to know the Lord at 19, and we [...]