Moms with Borderline Personality Disorder

Another Borderline-related article of mine has just been published.  It is called “Moms with Borderline Personality Disorder”.  Read it here.
Many Borderlines have requested me to pull out my articles in the Internet.  It offends them greatly.  I do not blame them.  It is very intriguing to read my articles on Borderline Personality Disorder because I [...]

Borderlines Like to Swear and Curse

Any person who easily swears and curse has a lack of emotional regulation.  Stress triggers a response that is in the form of cursing and swearing.
So, if you are in the habit of swearing and cursing, you need to find a positive way to divert your irritation.  You cannot allow yourself to swear.  Not all [...]

How to Spot a Borderline Before They Spot You?

This article is the one that get the most page views. Read it here:  ”How to Spot a Girl With Borderline Personality Disorder”.   This article is very intriguing to many Borderlines that I have received many “hate” comments from people suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder.    Many Borderlines accuse me of being ignorant about [...]

Best Approach to the Rages of a Borderline

 
 
 
I think I have a “BPD Detector” in my body.  I can sense them from afar.  I can predict their course of actions. I can understand their pain though I don’t necessarily agree that the choices they make are all 100% due to the illness.   Many readers are intrigued on my reasons for writing [...]

No Greeting Cards on Mother’s Day for Bitter Moms

Mothers receive the brunt of a child’s tantrum early in life.  I think God designed it this way precisely because God gave mothers a special gift in her heart.  Mothers have an ability to understand her children in ways that can’t be described in words.  The feeling associated with mothers is gentleness.  Mothers can be [...]

5 Proven Ways to Stop a Child From Tantrums

 
 
The article “5 Proven and Quick Ways to Calm a Child” is published recently.  It is another hands-on advice from me on what worked in calming a child.  Most of my 9 children have Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD).   I think their world is not understood.  There is one thing that amazes me with children [...]

5 Power Tips to Handle “I Do Everything in the House” Statements from Wife with Borderline Personality Disorder

 
 
By popular demand, I have written an article entitled “Borderline Personality Disorder:  5 Powerful Tips to Handle “I Do Everything in the House” Statements by Your Wife.”  
Many readers have written that they enjoyed my articles on Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)  because it speaks of the truth.  However, my Borderline readers literally curse me for [...]

RAD Kids Become Borderline

We were listening to an audio CD of Dr. Bryan Post about Stealing, Lying and Self-mutilation.  His premise is all emotions arose from “fear” and “love”.  A child who is a victim of trauma, neglect, abuse are greatly triggered by stress.  In the stress mode, they act in fear.  It is manifested in many ways. 
Children [...]

The Jigsaw Puzzle

All our children have suffered trauma and neglect from their  birth mother who had Borderline Personality Disorder.  At present, their mother is in denial that she has wronged her children.  She denies their truth.  The results are hurting children.  Healing is very slow.  
American couples adopt children from foreign countries like Romania, Russia, and China. [...]

When You Love Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: Tips

 
 
 
Now, that science is beginning to get a glimpse and understanding of the mental illness called Borderline Personality Disorder, there are many approaches that have risen to help a loved one deal with them.  
Validation is an important technique.  A communication method that supports, gives empathy, and provides the truth work with them too. 
On your [...]