Provide them with No Audience
I think I have a “BPD Detector” in my body. I can sense them from afar. I can predict their course of actions. I can understand their pain though I don’t necessarily agree that the choices they make are all 100% due to the illness. Many readers are intrigued on my reasons for writing articles on Borderline Personality Disorder. The “NONs”, those who are nurturing a relationship with a Borderline agree to my thoughts and observations. Of course, the Borderlines want my articles out of the Internet. I would not blame them. It may seem that I have no sympathy for them. However, I understand them so well that I am doing everything in my power to help my children in spite of their genetic predisposition to BPD.
I have read that “the floor model approach to therapy”, the kind of therapy that early childhood interventionist does to children with special needs before they are 3 years old, is very effective in treating a child with high risk to BPD.
My articles on BPD is simply ”ruthless” but I need to get the attention of people to this disorder. My research has taken me to empathize with those suffering and my trend of topic is towards helping the loved ones of Borderlines deal with the disorder.
In any case, my articles hurt a Borderline tremendously. And, their direct attack on me on a personal level is typical. Even before I wrote those articles, I knew it will be coming. Every time they make a “below the belt” personal comments on my articles, it just shows how misunderstood they feel.
I have successfully dealt with many Borderlines in many settings. The key is to ignore them when they do stuff that doesn’t make sense for it simply “does not make sense” to confront them. And, this is my advise to those that have to deal with them on a daily basis. What do you do when they attack you and rage at you? Get out of their way and ignore them. Set your boundaries. Let them do their drama without an audience. The worst that you can do in your life is to absorb all their attacks as if it doesn’t hurt you. You are human and not a trash can.
There are victims to this BPD disorder, the one without a voice is the child. I write articles on BPD for the innocent children so that their parents will be forewarned on what lies ahead in falling in love with someone with this disorder.
If you are intrigued, read the following articles:
“The Signs that Your Girlfriend Might Have Borderline”
“Borderline Personality Disorder”
“5 Tips to Deal with a Loved One with Borderline Personality Disorder”
“How to Spot a Girl with Borderline Personality Disorder”
“Developmental Trauma Disorder”
“When Your Mother is an Emotional Terrorist”
“The Scariest Aspect of Borderline Personality Disorder”
“10 Ways to Handle A Difficult Ex” : Focus on Borderline Personality Disorder”
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